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A Prayer To God, All My Notebooks And Kitchen Table Wisdom In A COVID-19 World

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The breathing lessons of the times are changing towards the recovery found in the tumult of light. Day leaves her perspective in every excellent yoga posture.

They speak of the human being. The leaves, well they meditate. I think of the almost jubilant constellations. Of how generous and self-aware they are even in the width of a thread. I think of all the perfect intentions of my mother towards her daughters. How I have forgiven her for every newcomer translation. The day is like the mystery found in an ice cream milkshake, like the all the boring clouds. All is quiet.

All is still. Year’s end replanted in snow, in earth, in clay, in sand, in fallen kingdom at the end of the world. I think of my childhood. My childhood sea has become desolate now. I think of the namesake and his inheritance and I think of mercy great and magnificent and few and abundant as the miracles in wildflowers. How substantial they are as intelligence.

And you are always confidently wonderful in all that you do, in every field, every harvest that you have inherited. How to express happiness or even sadness, how to wait for an answer to prayer, the elegant solution. You are cool depth once in a lifetime, nuance found in straw and thread and hemline and article, style interwoven into the fabric of the stars. He is as calm as the ocean. He is my voyage into eternity to the stars and beyond, inside the music room, the hidden life in spontaneity. This is a letter to God. For what God has started in my life is this. To see the world. The cold bonds of snow has melted into water. Snow has witness, grief, sonnets and every kind of bold transition. Isn’t this God.

The circus of the alphabet grills me when I have a discussion with my mother.

What motivates me is God. Still in the matters and energies of the air. I think of how cold the world is sometimes. How aloof and standing on edge the mountains.

I think of the dust with admiration. It has lived for centuries. This dazzling admiration is built like a museum. Let me communicate what I think that God wants to communicate. That I am a writer without a competitive spirit. That it is in my very nature to be poet.

This is when she identified that the change happened. When she stopped writing poetry and discovered a second novel there on the page of a diary. She glimpsed her childhood.

She didn’t really want to ever see that part of herself again. All that regret. All her potential. The self-denying wilderness. The heartache, heartbreak and the angels that she found there. God gave her a father, gave her gold and an obsession to write. It was all she ever thought about. To write. There are some things you never forget.

A woman has a long memory for painful things, painful subject matter.

Where does this dance come from, she asked herself. Sometimes it seemed as if it came from deep within her, deep inside of her of her stomach and her lungs, drawing her to the energies and matter of women who lacked a kind of mother love for her. That was what she wanted.

A mother to tell her that she was proud of her. A mother to brush her hair. To cook and clean for her. A mother to listen to her. Take notice of her. All of these things were impossible for her own mother locked in her own battles and struggles, her own elegant depression.

She wanted to tell her mother, well, I’ve achieved, won’t you love me for that. If nothing else, love me for that. In return, her mother said, you don’t belong to me. You are not mine. I don’t want you. I don’t know how to love you. At this admission from all her mother’s actions the girl began to achieve for her father. But he was locked in his own adamant battles and struggles, his own elegant depression. She turned from the narcissistic mother to the sun of her father. Her mother’s sun was cold and aloof, indifferent to her.

Only woke at the distress signal and her cry of failure. Then her mother would turn around and say, See, I told you so. I told you that you couldn’t do it. You’re too intellectual, just like your father.

And the girl took those words and broke her heart, broke her spirit, broke the atlas of her world, destroyed and sabotaged herself until she found someone to love her and her sadness, self-doubt and insecurity and regret faded away into non-existence. The world shifted. She stopped listening to that critical inner voice. She became what she always wanted to be. A poet. And she discovered her mother had been a girl too with dreams and goals and plans and a vision to either be an actress or a tennis star.

And she began to weep for what they had both lost, mother and daughter, their battles and their struggles and their elegant depression. In her own way, the daughter realised the mother had only been protecting her from the wilderness. She became obsessed with her mother. You are never to write about me, daughter. That is an agreement set in stone. The daughter agreed to this halfheartedly never once forgetting the harm her father had perhaps done to her mother, the safety net he was to her when he chose her above his wife.

When his adoration turned to admiration not for her, his wife but for his daughter. His complex became his daughter’s complex as did his philosophy about life and his education.

And as his daughter’s intellect grew, she grew further away from her mother who didn’t know how to love someone who was so like herself.

She turned away from the universe that her mother offered her and held onto the particles and the dimensions of beauty and gratefulness that she acquired from her father to the light for all the daughter’s life.

She turned away from narcissism, but discovered that grandeur could be vulnerable too. When her mother became elderly, she forgave her mother because she finally understood her reasoning. Sometimes it was hard to let the tears fall, but she did and she took her mother’s hand, still beautiful and said to her, you light my path, lit all my paths like a searchlight.

Pushcart Prize and Best of the Net nominated shortlisted and longlisted poet Abigail George is a recipient of four writing grants from the National Arts Council, the Centre for Book and ECPACC. She briefly studied film, writes for The Poet, is an editor at MMAP and Contributing Writer at African Writer. She is a blogger, essayist, writer of several short stories, novellas and has ventured out to write for film with two projects in development . She was recently interviewed for Sentinel, and the BBC.

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Truth and the third wave of the pandemic: To be vaccinated or not to be vaccinated

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I have endured the worst possible case scenario. Being locked up in a mental institution for six months while in my late teens, early twenties. Even though I was of sound body, mind and soul. I am 42 years old now and I haven’t come all the way back from that experience. Everyone wrote me off when I returned home to Port Elizabeth as Gqeberha was known in those days but worse was to follow. Inhumane treatment from those closest to me, rejection from society. I was taught that I had a mental disability and would never be able to work again, hold down a steady job or earn a monthly income. I was told in no uncertain terms that I had to now live on the fringes of society since I would be unable to make a positive contribution to society. For twenty years this continued. I had to all intents and purposes not only given up on myself, my personal success, development of my potential and fulfillment and engagement in a relationship that would lead ultimately to my future happiness. The goal of marriage and having a child, bringing children into the world and raising a family was not only put into the distant past, I thought that it would always be non-existent for me.

I would spend my time listening to sad music, love songs on the radio and wonder why it was not me caught up in the scenario of having a relationship with the opposite sex. I sank even further into the pit of the hell in f despair and hardship. I virtually had lost control over my life, received a disability grant which I did not spend on anything which I personally needed. Family considered me to be the proverbial black sheep of the family. When I got angry at the way I was treated I was certified. My rights were taken away from me. I was verbally, mentally and emotionally abused. I did everything in my power to be loved and accepted by both my maternal and paternal family which is why I believe so strongly today in dismantling the stigma that surrounds issues concerning mental illness and depression mania, euphoria and elation (however mild or all-consuming it might be). At this late stage of my life I have become an advocate for mental wellness. To stop the fight and curb the alienation and isolation of sufferers of mental illness. I want people from all walks of life to realise that people with mental illnesses can enrich our lives and can make a positive contribution to society.

I myself have always sought solace in writing. I have found it to be an instrument for change and therapeutic as well.

I have firsthand knowledge and experience of being called anything from schizophrenic to being diagnosed with bipolar mood disorder and because of the heavy psychotropic medication I have taken over the years I have had a host of illnesses presenting themselves. Chronic fatigue syndrome, insomnia, an underactive thyroid, chronic kidney disease, gout and heart disease. These diseases manifested themselves early on in my life before the onset of middle age when they would be more prevalent in someone who would be prone to these sorts of illnesses because of not living a healthy lifestyle.

I take each day as it comes now and live in the moment. I have my good days. I have my bad days. I have a mean temper and constantly have to watch what I eat, watch what I say and how I react to people who treat me as him I am a second class citizen because of everything I have been through in my life. Truth be told I always knew I was different. The depression started in childhood for me. I was always an overachiever. I would come home in the afternoons after school but no one ever helped me with my homework, told me either that they were proud of me or believed in me or loved me for that matter.

Everyday I am a work in progress. It is tough dealing with moodswing but that is the currency I deal in and the territory that borders my sense of self-control.

I have been called many names. None of them pretty or lovely. I have had zero support from my immediate family and my estranged family has complete written me off and washed their hands off of me thinking there is nothing they can do for me. This has been very hurtful and even has made made me feel quite suicidal over the years and in my hour if need, my hours of silence, pain and collective trauma I turned to God, prayer and meditation in my hour of need. At the time of the outbreak of the pandemic I got corona and was admitted to the psych ward at Provincial Hospital here in Gqeberha. I had no medical aid and was once again at the mercy of the system but I survived hell and that harrowing experience again to live to tell the tale of how to overcome the impossible, to live and to learn, to remain humble and kind even in the face of adversity and cruelty.

Loneliness, abject poverty, homelessness can either kill you or make you realise that you are powerful beyond measure and I have realised that I am powerful beyond measure.

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Thoughts From the Frontline

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“Hip/Hop, Trap. I would describe my music as different, unique, compared to what I hear in the music industry in South Africa. It is a different sound of genre based on hip hop. In my downtime I listen to artists like Mexikodro, Playboi Carti, Diego Money, Pyrex Whippa, Lil Gotit and Sahbabii. In my life my family has been and still is a major influence, I just want to see them happy and stress free. I want to be successful so that they can spend the rest of lives living comfortably. I chose music because I believe that it is something I’m good at. I wouldn’t call myself a musical genius, or say that I’m talented musically because I’m not but, I have taken the time to learn everything that I know today, I started as a rapper, but now I am a producer as well, a very good one if I should say, I mix and master vocals, well I try to. It is still something I am learning on a daily basis and I believe that one day if not soon, I will understand that aspect of music. The guys who I record with are so gifted at what they do, we really inspire each other to take it to the next level. I would be lying if I said that I inspire myself, well maybe I do, I don’t know, however what I do know is that we can go to the next level together because nowadays you rarely see a duo or a group of rappers in the South African music industry, there are 4 of us in our group including others who aren’t full time as yet, I think that makes the odds better for us to take it to the next level as opposed to being a solo” SUPREME ZEE, CEO OF Holidae Don’t Stop!

“What inspires me to take it to the next level is basically my daughter, Family and my everyday experiences growing up and living in Westbury losing friends and family to gang violence had a huge effect on me since a young age I’ve been through hell and back if I may describe in short and I’ve realized, to make it out you really need to dig deep. This is also one of the main reasons why I started writing music. I love Music, it is my passion that is mainly why I chose to make music, ever since a young age I’ve just been through the worst writing music and articulating every word I write is therapeutic. Manifesting and having faith in God has carried me through. Major influences in my life remains God, my baby girl, my family and obviously my Team Holidae Dont Stop! We always encourage one another to do our best we definitely do bring out the best in each other and I’d say the beats that supreme Zee creates brings out the best in me personally and it’s also one of the major influences in my music career it’s only elevated since the moment we started. In my down time I listen to All types of music mostly Gospel & HDS. I would describe my music as being one in a million very versatile, real and unusually different from the usual and it has an unorthodox flow and style to it so you can literally expect only the best” TheGR8ACE, CEO and co-founder of Holidae Dont Stop!

My inspiration comes from knowing that I have a God given talent and my friends (HDS) and family that motivates me day to day to do better. I chose music because as a hobby it is something I love doing which started out in high school where I had friends that used to rap over beats and I’d just stand within the circle and listen to their rhymes and it became to amuse me when I found out that there are people in my community creating their own music, whereas in 2019, I linked with the crew Holidae Dont Stop! and it has been a wonderful journey ever since! Learning and growing at the same time. My mother has played a role as one of my biggest inspirations including friends (HDS) have been a major Influence in my life, for they always pushed me to be a better me. Not giving up on me and providing not bad advice but love and positivity. I’ve been in difficult situation in the past and I am just trying to make a better standard of living for my family, my friends as well as my community (Westbury). In my down time I listen to various genres like Rock, Rnb, Hip/Hop, Rap, Emo Rap. I would describe our music as Western Plug for it derives from Hip-hop with an offbeat including 808s and guitar and piano samples that Supreme Zee (Producer) recreates and when hearing the beat, I can automatically put my heart on it.” Bando -recording Artist at Holidae Dont Stop!

 To conclude this, we are all from Johannesburg South Africa as one of our members spread across as far as Cape Town, temporarily. Our member who are not full time are – Leiph Camp (Splaash66) Stock broker, Razaak Benjamin (Glock) Salesman and Marion Reyners (Marion The Great) Facilitator. “Our music is Bold, Iconic and timeless” TheGr8ce. Our crew is based in Jozi (Johannesburg) although we do not have a manager as yet. Our follow up record will sound similar to the “Western Plug tape” that we have recently released, followed by 3 singles. Plug is a genre that derives itself from Hip-Hop and our next single will drop in 2 weeks. The link to our music is on all platforms and the Love and support would be much appreciated. We literally wont stop! –

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Slavery and the real life bending sinister

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What is slavery? It is nothing more than poverty of the mind. It is not a school of thought or a philosophy. It is scarcity. It is lack. It is cumbersome. It is heavy. It is a burden.

What does it have to do with politics? Ask what it has to do with genocide.

What does it have to do with the power of having a slave mentality? Just as easily as we rise, we fall. A leaf. Ask yourself this. Does the leaf or gravity have the slave mentality or is it just a path to its consciousness, and if it is a meandering path to its consciousness what does that make of gravity? Gravity is easily the culprit or saboteur. A cup carries water but how does the water break through the physical wellness of the body to sate thirst, how does water flow through the universal meridians and find sanctuary in all the wild places that the ocean cannot contain, in code, in which case what observations come out of these natural and bohemian studies.

A slave is a slave is a slave. My grandfather was a slave. My great-grandfather was a slave. On both the paternal and maternal side they are non-existent for me. I live for my father. My father is not a slave. You see his mind is not enslaved. His psyche, his mental, emotional, physical wellness, intellectual prowess and integrity is intact inasmuch as he is not a slave to the peculiarities and eccentricities of the people he finds himself amongst.

In the stages of my own life I can see that I have been enslaved (my mindset and attitude was) by my body image, my identity of cosmic Africa, the cosmos, my self as an African, what I was entitled to, my basic self esteem. I was a slave to my sister, her dalliances, her whiteness, her renouncing Africa for America then Europe and I understood what loneliness, family, friendship and family finally meant and this frightened me a great deal because I realised I had never really loved myself before. I was a slave to every moment up until I heard James Baldwin speak up. I had truly been a slave to waiting for someone to release me and offer me relief somehow from this kind of suffering and cognitive thinking. I wanted happiness but the price for my freedom was this. Somebody else had to love me before I could.

Ask what slavery has cost us as humanity. Look back at history. When I look back at history, all my life I never felt safe. Whether it was the bogeyman, or a horror film, or apartheid, or reading about apartheid, acknowledging it was the difficult part. How would you even begin that dialogue? What could you partner with those hectic images that left you with an urgency and a sense of betrayal from God? So, I grew up with an unpleasant disdain for middle class families in South Africa. It was easy for me to picture them as racist which they were and still are to a certain degree and yet how could I not be? The thought of slavery and decolonization never left me even as a child as I sought to fight for the betterment of society and to right all the evil wrongs.

Slavery is everything. It is primitive. It is visible if you look hard enough. We haven’t even begun to talk about or discuss in rational terms without venting or becoming agitated or irrational about race relations in South Africa or slavery as a concept or narrative in Africa.

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